Blooming Mindset

Welcome to the Blooming Mindset, a weekly dose of clarity, mindset, and practical wisdom to help you stay consistent, think more deeply, and build a life aligned with your identity and purpose. I’m ​Ruth Rieckehoff​, and I’m so glad you’re here. ​Please share this newsletter with a friend!​

Beloved Architect of Identity,

Hope your year has started terrifically!

I spent my husband’s birthday thinking about a cactus.
Not cake. Not candles. A cactus.

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The day I’m writing this is my husband’s birthday and my 11th work anniversary. Same day. Double milestone.

Celebrations do that thing where they make you reflective. For me, they made me think about the desert.

Years ago, while staying near Tucson, we spent half a day at Saguaro National Park. Not the dramatic kind of park (when compared to Yosemite or Yellowstone).

No waterfalls. No lush valleys. No thundering rivers or turquoise lakes. Just miles and miles of giant cacti standing there quietly.

At first, it felt underwhelming. But, there is always more beyond what meets the eye.

The saguaro isn’t trying to impress you.

It grows painfully slowly. At five years old, it’s shorter than your pinky finger. It might not grow arms for 50 to 100 years. Some never do.

And yet, it can reach heights of 70 feet (21 meters) and live more than 150 years.

What changed how I saw it was learning this: The saguaro is a keystone species.

Remove it, and the ecosystem collapses.

Birds lose shelter. Bats lose food. Pollinators disappear. The desert becomes poorer.

That stopped me.

Because for a long time, I thought my job was to be a player in my field.
Compete. Perform. Optimize. Stay visible.

But the people who quietly hold everything together? They don’t look flashy. They look stable.

They provide structure others rely on.
They create nourishment that others build on.
They make growth possible without constant force.

And here’s the part that stuck with me:

If you’ve been growing, even slowly, for years, that doesn’t mean you’re behind. Maybe you were preparing to grow arms.

Not more hustle. More structure.

A system that feeds others.
An offer that stabilizes a gap.
A rhythm that makes your impact repeatable instead of exhausting.

For the next 90 days, that might mean choosing just a few needle-movers. Breaking them into small, daily actions. Letting habits and systems do the heavy lifting instead of your nervous system.

That’s how keystones scale, without burning out.

The real question isn’t how visible you are.
It’s what collapses if you do not stand tall.

Until next time, keep blooming,

Ruth

Reflect

1. Where in your work or business do others quietly rely on you more than you realize?
2. What have you been postponing because it doesn’t look impressive, but would create stability if built?

Reframe

Old belief: I need to do more to matter.
​New belief: I need to structure what already matters.

You don’t need to grow faster. You need to grow arms.

News

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P.S. I am curious, if you had to name one “arm” your work is ready to grow this year, what would it be?

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